Things That Hurt’s Your Dog’s Feelings
Did you know your daily actions might be hurting your dog’s feelings more than you think?
Studies show that dogs have emotional intelligence comparable to a 2-year-old child. They can feel joy, sadness, and even hurt feelings. In this blog, we’ll uncover common everyday habits that might be unintentionally breaking your dog’s heart—from your tone of voice to small daily routines.
1. Inconsistency
Dogs are creatures of habit; they thrive on routine and predictability.
Inconsistency creates confusion and anxiety. A stable pack has a clear, consistent leader—this creates safety and security. We are their Pack Leaders, providing stability and guidance. Consistency in feeding and walking times helps them feel secure. Familiarity with their environment and routine is key. When we provide this, we help them live happier, stress-free lives.
2. Rubbing Their Nose
You’ve probably seen it before: a dog has an accident in the house, and their owner rubs their nose in it as punishment. This method is not only ineffective but also harmful to your bond. Imagine this—you make a mistake, and someone shoves your face into it. Humiliating, right? Dogs feel the same shame and confusion. They don’t understand the connection between the accident and the punishment. This can lead to fear and mistrust.
Focus on positive reinforcement. A firm “no” is enough if you catch them in the act. If you discover it later, clean it up without fuss. Address accidents with understanding, not punishment.
3. Petting Their Head
We often associate head pats with affection, but the truth is many dogs find this gesture intrusive and uncomfortable. Imagine someone constantly patting you on the head-it would probably get annoying pretty quickly. Dogs have sensitive heads, and a pat on the head can be startling, especially if it comes unexpectedly.
Reaching over a dog’s head can also be perceived as a threat in gesture. Particularly by dogs who are already anxious or fearful. Instead of going for the head, focus on areas where dogs generally enjoy being petted such as the chest shoulders and base of the tail. Gentle strokes along the back are also usually well received. Always observe your dog’s body language if they lean into your touch, lick your hand, or wag their tail, it’s a good sign they’re enjoying the interaction. However, if they stiffen turn their head away or show other signs of discomfort it’s best to respect their boundaries and cease the petting.
4. Shouting At Them
Imagine someone constantly yelling at you—it would be terrifying.Dogs experience the same fears and anxiety when they’re shouted at.Shouting doesn’t teach your dog anything except to fear you.Dogs are sensitive to tone; they hear anger, not the words.
Use a calm, clear, and firm tone. Be consistent with commands. Training should be a positive experience that builds trust.
5. Being A Party Pooper
Dogs are social creatures; they crave interaction, playtime, and mental stimulation. Ignoring their need for socialization leads to loneliness, boredom, and even depression. Imagine being stuck inside all day with nothing to do-that’s how your dog feels.
Make time for walks, play, and interactive games. Even cuddling on the couch strengthens your bond. A tired dog is a happy dog.
6. Laughing At Your Dog Fears
Imagine being terrified of something and getting laughed at instead of comforted. That’s how your dog feels when you laugh at their fears. Whether it’s thunder, fireworks, or the vacuum cleaner, their fear is real.
Offer comfort and reassurance. Speak in a soothing voice, pet them gently, and create a safe space. If fears are severe, consult a behaviorist.
7. Taking Their Food Away
Imagine having your food taken away mid-meal it’s—unsettling. Dogs feel the same way. In the wild, food is a resource, and protecting it is instinctual.
Teach the “leave it” command and use positive reinforcement. Respect your dog’s space during mealtime. This prevents food guarding and builds trust.
8. Pushing Them Away
Physically pushing your dog away when they seek affection can be emotionally damaging. While it might be done to set boundaries, dogs interpret it as rejection.
Use redirection and verbal cues like “off” or “back”. Reward good behavior instead of physical force.
9. Using Crate
A crate should be a dog’s Safe Haven, not a place of punishment. If it’s only used when your dog misbehaves, they’ll associate it with fear.
Make the crate a positive space with treats, toys, and praise. Encourage your dog to enter willingly. The crate should be a comfort zone, not a place of dread.